The first weekend retreat was attended by 43 recovering Jewish alcoholics, chemically
dependent persons, spouses and significant others from seven states. It was held in May,
1979 at the Educational Alliance's Isabella Friedman Campgrounds, Brewster, New York. Participants
had a broad spectrum of involvement in Jewish heritage and traditions. They were from
Orthodox, Conservative and Reform traditions; half were temple goers, half were not. Some
were fluent in Hebrew and religious ritual, others were not. Men and women participated in
equal numbers. Participant histories of alcoholism and chemical dependency also varied.
Some were from families where no other members were known to have done alcoholic drinking;
others were able to clearly identify alcoholism in members of their immediate families.
Some had problems with both alcohol and mood altering pills; others had used only alcohol.
The ages of the participants ranged from the mid-20s to the mid-60s and represented a
variety of life styles and economic levels.
Activities on the weekend included traditional religious observances and Sabbath
services under the direction of Rabbi Barry Woolf, Chaplain of the State of Minnesota and
the Hazelden Foundation. Other parts of the program included lectures and group
discussions on alcoholism and chemical dependency, informal gatherings and one-to-one
discussions; AA and Alanon meetings; spiritual dialogues and discussions of Jewish texts
and references to alcoholism and chemical dependency in Jewish literature.
The common concerns of the participants were their isolation from the Jewish community,
the denial of their disease by their family members, the impact of the disease on their
family relationships, and the failure of most professionals to make an appropriate
diagnosis of their problem and, in particular, the ignorance and denial of the problem by
the rabbis whom they had consulted.
Participants emphasized that they had not found the support and assistance they sought
from Jewish agencies and resources; that it had been Christian clergy who had referred
them to treatment centers; Christian members of AA who were their sponsors and friends;
and attendance at Christian spiritual retreats and the use of Christian spiritual
literature which had aided them in their recovery. The participants expressed a great deal
of emotion and anger at this situation. They wanted to find Jewish spiritual resources and
activities to assist them in their recovery. They had begun to explore their relationship
to the Jewish community as a whole and they wanted to continue the process of exploration
and reconciliation that they had begun. They expressed interest in and looked forward to
other retreats and activities of this type. |